Love is patient. Have you ever considered what this means? What does the patience of love look like?
I was thinking about this and it occurred to me that GOD who is love demonstrates the perfect form of patience. Let me see if I can begin to explain. When GOD made Adam, HE knew Adam would fail HIM. Even as HE was forming Adam’s frame from the dust of the ground HE knew Adam would need a Savior. HE knew he would try to meet his own needs according to his own strength and knowledge. Yet, GOD persisted. HE never gave up. HE never turned away. HE began before, HE even started to form Adam, to provide a way of salvation for all mankind.
We think of patience as waiting for an expected outcome and waiting, well. Or we think of it as enduring trial and testing without losing our cool but patience is more than that. The best definition I have ever heard of patience is to remain constant and consistent in belief and emotion in spite of what comes whether good or bad but remain steady without being shaken or alarmed. I believe the Bible calls this setting ones face like a flint. You choose to remain steadfast and immovable in the midst of challenges and obstacles.
When I was a young woman, I made mistakes. I pushed the edges of my boundaries. I caused my parents to shed tears and to yell at me. They did not disown me because I caused them pain. In the same way that we as human beings have caused the FATHER pain and sinned against HIM – he loved us right on through that and HE made a way. I have no doubt there were times when we pushed the edges of our boundaries with GOD but HE looked at us through the blood of JESUS knowing that HE had made a way. Every time I failed and caused my parents pain I still knew that I could come to them and relationship could be restored. So too, when we fail GOD and commit sin, there is an opportunity to come to GOD and know that HE is faithful and that HE forgives and accepts us.
Love, the GOD kind of love is this way. It does not change just because someone eats the fruit of the tree that was off limits. It does not change because someone falls short. Rather this love does not run or shrink away but stands firm and constant so that when one has faced a debilitating challenge in life that one can run first into the shelter of GOD’S love knowing full well that it will sustain you. Love is patient. It changes not.